27 February 2011

Sunday Salon: Recombobulating

My husband, my mother, and I have a long history with the word discombobulated. Our conversations about the word - how dorky is it that we have had multiple conversations about this word? - have primarily revolved around my insistence that you can't take the prefix and suffixes off the word. My husband, on the other hand, believes that things which are discombobulated can be combobuled. :)  My mother just thinks we are both nuts and likes to use the word to spark discussion. While this may not amuse anyone else, us geeks get all giggly over the situation. And right now, humor helps.

On Friday, February 18, 2011, just over a week ago, one of my closest friends died in a motorcycle accident. Josh and I met when I was fourteen years old, and he has been a constant in my life ever since. Losing him hurts, and I really thank those of you who have sent sympathy my way through post comments and emails. I can't tell you how much I appreciate it.

In more sad news, while I was really enjoying Ulysses, I have to set it aside to be read at a later date. Right now my brain just isn't in the mood for the sort of mental gymnastics the book requires. I need to immerse myself in the quick and easy, the light and fluffy. I want to lose myself, not struggle with content. I feel really really bad about this since the readalong was sort-a-kind-a-maybe my idea.

Even though I'm failing the Ulysses readalong, I did manage to finish two other readalongs in February. I read The Subjection of Women by John Stuart Mills for the Year of Feminist Classics and A Walk in the Woods by Bill Bryson for Erin's Reading Buddies. Outside of readalongs, I also read a few books received for review including This Girl is Different by JJ Johnson, Anastasia's Secret by Susanne Dunlap, and Lost Voices by Sarah Porter.

The book I am reading right now is Radio Shangri-La by Lisa Napoli, a memoir about her rather spontaneous decision to go work in a radio station in Bhutan. Just a couple chapters in and I am already in love with Bhutan, touted as the happiest place on earth.

Also coming up on the reading list, I have 31 Bond Street by Ellen Moran, Moonwalking with Einstein by Joshua Foer, and Pox: An American History by Michael Wilrich. All of these books are on the list because of tours, and I'm really excited about them.

Finally, I have a bookish confession. I bought a book which is now tempting me to break the TBR Dare. After much hem-hawing, I used a Barnes and Noble gift card to buy a copy of A Discovery of Witches by Deborah Harkness. This book made my wish list in January, and after seeing a bunch of awesome reviews on the book, I totally caved and bought it. I think that technically, I'm only breaking the Dare if I actually read it, but it's just sitting there, calling to me, tempting me.....

So what's going on in your bookish world?

26 comments:

  1. So sorry about your friend. Such an incredibly hard thing!

    And I like the word recombobulated. It's truly fantastic!

    The Geography of Bliss devotes a whole chapter to Bhutan as the happiest place on earth. You might be interested in reading that after Radio Shangri-Li!

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  2. Heh. That self-same book is also taunting me to break the TBR Dare. I was just going to wait and get a copy later, but a new indie bookstore in my area was giving away galleys for its grand opening. A Discovery of Witches was one of the books on the freebie table, and I could. not. resist. Now, it's crying out... "read me, now. Why wait until April?" I think I need to hide it from myself. ;)

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  3. Once again, I'm very sorry about your friend. :(

    Taking Ulysses off for now is a good plan, I think. I've only lost people that I love twice now in my life, and both times I fixated on light, fun books that I read quickly and sometimes multiple times. I think that helped the coping process. I can't imagine Joyce does...

    I read that Lisa Napoli book too! Bhutan does sound very intersting.

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  4. I'm so sorry for your loss.


    I also stopped reading Ulysses. It was just too much for me right now with everything else going on in my life. I needed a break. :) Nothing wrong with that!

    Enjoy your fun reads!

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  5. I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, Trisha.

    I like the story about "discombobulated." I do the same thing with "overwhelmed," and sometimes like to say that I am just "whelmed" (from a goofy quote in the movie "10 Things I Hate About You"!)

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  6. I as sorry to hear about your friend - I hope your reading give you some comfort in the next few weeks.

    I am teetering on the DARE too - I bought Skipping a Beat before going to a signing with the author and it is beckoning to me!

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  7. Small World - Thanks for the suggestion! I actually finished the book, and I was immediately interested in learning more about this fascinating country!

    Teresa - Let me know if you decide to slip up and read it. Maybe we could do a joint read or something! :)

    Amanda - I saw that you were the tour stop before me, and I can't wait to read your thoughts on the book!

    Allie - I think Jill and Jason may be the only ones hanging in there for Ulysses!

    Kim - I actually use the sentence "I am perfectly whelmed" when I really like something. :) Great minds and all that.

    Booksnyc - We are such addicts aren't we?!?! There is just something so wondrous about the new, spontaneous read. :)

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  8. Don't break the dare, Trisha! You can make it! Only one more month!

    :D

    I can't talk since I've been in quite the reading slump. This dare has not been much of a dare.

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  9. I have never heard this word before! I learnt something new today :)
    I think you are right to give up on Ulysses for now; anything that could distract your mind in what must be an extremely difficult time for you is better. Good luck!

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  10. I'm so sorry about your friend. My cousin was in a motorcycle accident several years ago. I know it's not fair to blame it on the motorcycles, but I just hate them now. I hate them. If nobody ever rode a motorcycle again, I'd be just as happy.

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  11. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. It can be really difficult to concentrate when your suffering like that. I hope you find some comfort soon.

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  12. HUUUUUUGE hugs for you! I think we all understand that the mental gymnastics required to read Ulysses is proooobably not what you need right now. No worries at all (especially since I didn't have the nads to tackle it in the first place)!

    If I were to cave and buy a book it would probably also be A Discovery of Witches. I can't wait to read that book!

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  13. I think recombobulating is a fantastic word, other than, perhaps, the focus and energy it takes to spell it correctly. Considering spelling words that aren't, how you say, real, is a challenge for me, I can totally understand how you might want to put Ulysses back up on the shelf right about now. I doubt I could muster my poor brain to those sorts of mental gymnastics even on a *good* day. Seems like there couldn't be a better time to read about the happiest place on earth.

    Sorry, again, about your loss, and I hope all the good reading you've got lined up will help make dealing with the hard stuff a little bit easier.

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  14. I love hearing your discussions about discombobulation. What a great word it is.

    And I'm so sorry about the loss of your friend. I'm sure that is quite a blow. And I'm sure that is why you felt compelled to treat yourself a little bit with the new book. Sometimes during sad times it helps to spoil yourself a little.

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  15. I am also sorry about the loss of your friend...and completely understand the need to change up your reading based on emotional and/or cognitive switches. James Joyce is a mental workout even in the best of situations.

    I am so far behind in the Year of Feminist Classics :( I've got to catch up; there are so many on this list that I've wanted to read for years.

    A Discovery of Witches is on my TBR as well...looking forward to your review.

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  16. See, what you need to do it listen to all the new books on audio. Audios don't count for the TBR Dare, you see! I ordered that very book on audio...should be getting it soon.

    I love the word discombobulated. My vote is that you can't change the word. The essence of the word is about chaos, not the lack thereof.

    I am so sorry about your friend. People are taken from us without warning sometimes, and is so painful. I'm sure he knows how much he means to you.

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  17. Given your recent loss I think you need to treat yourself and read the Discovery of Witches, unless it's too heavy right now. If so find a total throw away book, like a romance or beach read or something.

    I'm very sorry about your friend and will keep you all in my thoughts.

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  18. And no changing the word. My personal favorite is cattywampus, kissing cousin of discombobulated. Everything is just all cattywampus! I know a couple of italian words too if you need them :)

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  19. Trisha, I am so sorry about the loss of your friend, and totally understand your choice to read lighter things right now. I agree with Jenny Girl, and think that you should go for the gold and read A Discovery of Witches whenever you want. Be good to yourself right now, you need it. I will be thinking of you this week.

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  20. Christina - I have to admit that the ridiculous amount of ARCs I have on the TBR shelves have made the dare not too too bad. But that book is calling...

    Em - Distraction is a plus right now for sure.

    Jenny - Yeah, I have no desire for one anymore, and I've wanted a motorcycle for years.

    Kathy - Thanks so much. It's definitely a bad situation.

    Andi - Thank you! Hugs right back at ya.

    Megan - It was nice to read something a bit happier.

    Jenners - Anything to distract the mind right now. And I love manipulating words!

    Peppermint - I'm keeping up okay with reading the books for YoFC, but keeping up on the discussion? Not so much.

    Sandy - I really hope he did!

    Jenny Girl - I like cattywampus!

    Heather - Thanks! I think I may have to give in and read it. :)

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  21. Ms Trish - Glad you are okay.

    Sorry you'll miss Ulysses! I've been thinking of building a web app that helps read books like Ulysses, by putting annotations and notes and pictures alongside the text- it would be good for things like Dante, or Milton, or Moby Dick, too. Maybe I will have a rough draft if you wait long enough to try reading again, and you can help me test it :).

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  22. Jason - That would be awesome Jason! I'm definitely not giving up on Ulysses, just putting it off for a time when my brain doesn't need escapism quite as much.

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  23. OOooo - I like Jason's idea! I am having much more fun reading ABOUT Ulysses than reading it. I was going to write a where-am-I-inside-Ulysses but I gave my iPad to my traveling hubby and won't see it for a week! nor my notes. so... I feel a bit lost actually.
    and HUGS for you on the loss of your friend. hugs and more hugs.
    That witches book looks good and I need to tbr it and I also wishlisted Stone ButchBlues.
    Catch up with you on another readalong sometime down the road? :)

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  24. So sorry again about your loss Trisha. My thoughts are with you. I love the discussion on the word though and admit to being jealous of the geeky conversations. Hope all is getting better.

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  25. I'm sorry for my late hugs for your friend. It must be an awful time right now and you'll be in my thoughts.

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  26. Huge hugs, Trisha! Forget Ulysses - he'll be there when you're ready. Sending lots of good thoughts your way as you recombobulate :)

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